When Tucker McBride was young, the church across the street held Watch Night services on New Year's Eve. Songs of love in Christ and prayers for the New Year lilted all the way to the dark beams in the ceiling above.
Today, some churches still have New Year's Eve services filled with games and fellowship, songs and prayers. Other folks gather in homes with friends and family to bring in the new year with popcorn and brownies. Some people go to bed at 10 PM, fulling believing the new year will be there when they wake up in the morning.Times certainly have changed ... and yet, they haven't.
What is similar between the New Year's Eve celebration of 1946 and 2019? Most people want their loved ones around them, to mark a day of victory....victory over a year that may have been hard, or a year that had been successful and a fear it could not be replicated in the next.
The sameness is in the desire to surround oneself with love and acceptance, fellowship and joy. Enjoy your New Year's Eve with your family and friends, and perhaps another several thousand, depending on where you will be tonight. I look forward to Wednesday. Doesn't 2020 sound promising and full of hope?
Copyright Doris Gaines Rapp 2007-2018, 2019, 2020, 2021 Doris Gaines Rapp, Ph.D.
Tuesday, December 31, 2019
Monday, November 25, 2019
Choose Positive Thoughts of Thanksgiving
“I
always thank my God for you because of his grace given you in Christ Jesus.”
1 Corinthians 1:4
Thanksgiving is this week. One day, out of
three-hundred sixty-five, set aside to give thanks for all we have. One day?
Friends, a secret to joyous living is recognizing all we have for which to be
thankful each day.
Filling your heart and thoughts with gratitude,
heals the pain of feeling like there’s not “enough” in your world.
Thanks-living helps us appreciate what we have, not fester inside over what we
wish we have but don’t.
Begin by replacing something that burns an ugly hole
in your heart, like being envious over a friend’s new car, with thoughts of
those who bring you joy. Notice, in 1 Corinthians, it says, “I ALWAYS thank my
God for you…” One cannot hold a negative
and positive thought in their mind at the same time. They are opposites. Choose
love. Choose thankfulness and you will choose joy and health. Let us pray:
“Our father, God, you have brought Heaven into my
heart, for where you are, there is peace, joy and all you are. May your choice
of love rule in my life. I willingly give up my bent for old habits of
self-pity and envy. I accept that what you have given me is more than enough. For
this day, I ask that you develop in me the habit of thankfulness. Forgive me
when I put my plans and desires ahead of my time with you. For I know that is the
time negative thoughts creep in and tear apart my joy. I seek only to be your
servant, not the center of my thoughts of what my world should be, for only you
are glorious and good and choose wisely. To you is all power and glory. In the
name of Jesus, my savior, I pray. Amen”
Many
Blessings,
Doris
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Monday, November 18, 2019
Rejoice Always
1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 Rejoice at all times. Pray without ceasing. Give thanks in every circumstance, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus. (NIV)
As we draw nearer to Thanksgiving, have you begun thinking about thankfulness? Sometimes we get so overwhelmed with the knit-picky details of the day we forget all the many blessings we have already received. Other times, we look around and see those with more than we will ever have and believe God has not been fair in handing out His “things.” My friend, God doesn’t have pockets. His blessings are not the tangible assets of this world. However, He can open doors we had no idea were even there. We have to be willing to step through the portal to a new way of being.
I remember a fellow who told me, “Honestly, Dr.
Rapp, I never buy lottery tickets. But, one time I needed several hundred dollars
for an unexpected bill. While going to visit my mom one sunny Saturday, I pulled
into a service station about fifty miles away from home. I didn’t know anyone
in the area, so no one I knew would catch me “gambling.” As I handed the
cashier a dollar, I couldn’t even make eye contact. I was a middle-aged man but
felt like a ten year old, caught with their hand on Momma’s purse. I grabbed
the ticket and hurried out to my car. Two-hundred dollars would be enough to
cover what I needed, so I prayed for that specific amount as I fished for a
coin for the scratch off. There it was, a $35.00 winning. I would have to go
back in the store to cash it in. But, I didn’t. God didn’t answer my prayer. I
needed a lot more than $35.00. I jammed the ticket into my shirt pocket and
drove off. Then, I realized what I had done and my guilt exploded. I had not rejoiced
in His gift for me, but had turned down a real blessing from God.”
How many times has God answered our prayers but we
didn’t get what we wanted so we refused what He offered? For today, let us pray
for the humbleness to recognize the presence of God when He whispers in the darkness
of the night, or offers a blessing we hadn’t “ordered.” Let us pray:
“Oh loving and generous father, I rejoice and give
thanks for all you are and all you give. Your name is hold and precious, above
all names. I surrender to your will in my life and recognize that all you give me
are to help me become who you intend for me to be. For this day, I ask for
sight-of-the-heart to see your blessings, gentle hands to touch and heal the
wounds of a friend, and hearing tuned to your voice above the clatter of the
world. Forgive me for putting my desires above your perfect plan. Let me
not fall back into self-centeredness but let me focus on you. For only you hold
the power of creating and recreating within me a new heart. In the name of
Jesus, your son and my savior I pray. Amen”
Blessings,
Doris
Copyright
2019 Doris Gaines Rapp
For
previous posts go to: https://prayertherapyrapp.blogspot.com
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blog to accompany my newest novel: www.tuckermcbrideintheclassroom.com
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of nine novels available on www.amazon and www.barnesandnoble.com
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Website:
www.dorisgainesrapp.com
Monday, November 11, 2019
Veterans Day - 2019
"This is My commandment, that you love one another as I have
loved you. Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his
friend. You are my friends if you do what I command you." John 15: 12-14
It is November 11, therefore it is Veterans Day. The sameness of
our lives is what makes us feel safe. We believe that life is predictable because
a pattern exists that we can depend on. If we have a routine, perhaps the fears
that haunt us in the night will dissolve in the brightness of the every-day sunrise.
Originally called Armistice Day, it celebrated the ending of WWI
on the 11th hour, the 11th day, of the 11th month of 1911. Today we often hear
people include first responders and local police in their list of those we
honor. Let us also honor the military families who sacrifice the sameness of their
family life: the warm presence and support of a loved one and co-parent; the
touch of a son or daughter’s hand on a cheek; and the hoot from the top of the
stands when a son or daughter sinks a basket. All of these share their love for
family and friends by setting aside their lives and their own needs for the
protection of our country.
As you run into the grocery for a fresh carton of milk to replace
the one you finished this morning, you may pass a child whose breakfast table had
an empty chair today, and every day. At the mall, a man with thinning hair may
hide a heart, diminished by grief and sorrow over the death of a military son
or daughter. As you sit in the audience of a Veterans Day school program, know
that the aggravatingly slow-moving person in front of you may struggle with
their own prosthetic limb they gave up for you. When the family sits to watch a
ball game, honor the silence of the family member who sheds tears when they
play the national anthem, as they still ache over a friend-in-arms they lost to
a snipper’s bullet.
Today is a day to remember and honor. But, it’s also a day to make
plans for the future, a cause to support like Folds of Honor; Christmas cards
to write for those still in the military; a family down the street to adopt for
Thanksgiving; a child on the elementary ball team who needs another adult to
help validate their experience, that the song they sang was indeed wonderful,
or the homerun they hit was as spectacular as they thought. Whatever you choose
to do, to set aside your own needs to share the love of Christ with another,
dedicate yourself to the sameness of the experience so life may be a little
more predictable and safe again. Let us pray.
"Oh loving God, father of my friend and savior Jesus, holy and
pure is your name. May I hear your call to love others as you have loved me,
even when I may grumble about being too busy to interrupt my day with the needs
of others. For this day, I ask that you place someone in my path that needs
your love. Forgive me when I do not listen, or do not respond in a loving way
because I value what I am doing over the needs of others. If you have placed
them there, they will be a blessing to me, as I am to them. I know that love
will fill me to the level that I can open my life and love others. May any
glory and honor go to you, Father. I want none for myself. I lay the
selfishness I secretly harbor at your feet, that I may be a better, more dependable
friend. In the precious name of Jesus and by his power as your son I ask.
Amen"
Blessings,
Doris
Copyright 2019 Doris
Gaines Rapp
For previous posts go
to: https://prayertherapyrapp.blogspot.com
Fun blog to accompany my
newest novel: www.tuckermcbrideintheclassroom.com
Author of nine novels
available on www.amazon.com and www.barnesandnoble.com
Website:
www.dorisgainesrapp.com
Saturday, November 9, 2019
A New Beginning
As many of you know, my Prayer Therapy blog was hacked by someone asking for money. I could not delete their post so, much to my sorrow, I deleted the entire blog which I created in 2007. Thank You, Sally Walker was my last post on that original blog in January 2018, before I had major back surgery. When I returned to blogging, I was unable to solve the problem.
Good news! I can continue to post on this newly renamed blog and you readers can pull up my old blog to discover past posts. Go to https://prayertherapyrapp.blogspot.com to read twelve years of directed, specific prayers. The Lord is Good! In spite of the evil around us, He finds a way to reveal His word and love to us all. Highlight the URL, https://prayertherapyrapp.blogspot.com and copy it to the address line in your browser. Easy peasy.
May the Good Lord bless you all. Doris
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